As survivors find their voice, they are seeking to be heard, not rescued. Listen for their resilience, and acknowledge the pain. They have trusted you to lend them your ears. In return, trust them to speak what needs to be spoken to move them one step forward on their healing journey.
Tag: Survivors
Forgiveness is Dangerous Doctrine
When survivors focus on healing instead of avoiding consequences, living in their truth is often interpreted as revenge. Survivors take the blame for disruption in the family, job, or organization. Forgiveness is not always the high road; it is often the back road, merely the path of least resistance.